Learning from others: Releaf’s patient stories
For many Releaf patients, friends and family have proven to be a source of understanding. Take Rhona for example, in her patient story, she told us:
“I have been extremely open with my family and friends about my prescription, and all I have received is support and understanding.”
Similarly, Brandon said:
“My family have been very understanding about it, even if everyone isn’t completely onboard, they understand that it’s helping me get better.”
And, in his patient story, Omar offered a refreshing perspective:
“The last three or four years I’ve gone to my family over Christmas, and I always got quite ill. I couldn’t eat and just laid on the sofa with a hot water bottle and couldn’t do anything. I’m quite excited at the prospect of being able to take my medical cannabis with me this year, so if I do feel ill, I can manage it.”
Talking Turkey: Tips for discussing medical cannabis with family
For those who do want to have a conversation with their family about medical cannabis this Christmas, we’ve put together some helpful tips below:
1. Choose the right time and place
Like we are as individuals, every family is different. Some patients may feel having this conversation once would be the least stressful option, and therefore would rather tell everyone about their use of medical cannabis at the same time.
Others may feel it’s best to speak to their family and friends one-on-one away from a larger gathering, so it feels less overwhelming and allows for a more focused conversation.
What’s best for you is ultimately up to you. Consider all your options, and work out what fits you and your family best. ‘Tis the season of love after all!
2. Focus on education and experience
Some members of your family may be unaware that medical cannabis can be used to treat your diagnosed health condition, and unfortunately, some may not even be aware that medical cannabis is legal in the UK.
Combining factual information with your own personal experiences, such as sharing how your symptoms or lifestyle has been affected since starting cannabis-based treatments, allows you to provide a well-rounded perspective that bridges the gap between emotional and factual thinking patterns and perceptions.
Explaining your own health journey and any challenges you may have faced in the past with other, conventional treatment options, may help them understand your motivations for trying cannabis-based treatments.
3. Foster empathy and understanding
In most cases, when families express their concern, it usually stems from a combination of two things: love and fear.
Express that you understand and respect their perspective, but also hope that they can understand and respect you in the decisions you have made with regard to your health.
Reinforce that you are not using cannabis recreationally, you are using it as a prescribed medicinal treatment under the guidance of a specialist doctor.
4. Resolve with respect
Hopefully your family will understand you are choosing this path to benefit your health. However, it may take some time for those around you to become used to your new treatment routine.
Nevertheless, you can still maintain your dosing routines and schedule while being sensitive to the social setting and respecting your family members boundaries and personal comfort levels.
Adapting the way you administer your medication, such as vaping outdoors, or taking a prescribed oil, as opposed to cannabis flower, may be a way to compromise and a way to accommodate family members over the Christmas period without exacerbating your symptoms.
Conclusion
While some do feel apprehensive or uncomfortable sharing this aspect of their health, fearing potential judgement or misunderstandings, It's important to remember what the statistics say: an overwhelming majority of people in the UK would support their loved ones through their journey with medical cannabis.
May your Christmas be filled with understanding, compassion, family connection, and cannabis-based conversation!